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MY FINAL LAP
Reflections on Retirement
I am entering the final lap of my life. Like Canadian geese either flying north for the summer or south for the winter, suspended in air, it does not matter where my destination lies—only the flight itself.
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Thumbs Up
I’ve always admitted that I’ve never had a noble injury. This time was no different. I’ve been making quilts for several years without...

Patricia
May 21, 20222 min read
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Termites!
When my landlord who shares a duplex with me informed me that he had seen evidence of termites, I was filled with foreboding. An...

Patricia
May 7, 20222 min read
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Big-Screen Awareness
As I age, I have become increasingly aware of how I’m changing little by little. No doubt, I’ve been changing my whole life. According to...

Patricia
Apr 23, 20222 min read
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FOMO
There are many acronyms I’ve grown used to over the years, like ASAP (as soon as possible), BOGO (buy one, get one), and one that’s in...

Patricia
Apr 9, 20222 min read
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Anchors in the Wind
Amid all the instability caused by the disheartening Russian invasion of Ukraine, an ongoing pandemic, and escalating climate emergencies...

Patricia
Mar 26, 20222 min read
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Blue and Gold
The past few days as I’ve been contemplating what to write in my next blog there has been a growing tension between my mind and heart....

Patricia
Mar 12, 20222 min read
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When The Time Comes
One of my dearest friends told me she has created an outline for her memorial, if her husband wants to have one for her (it’s just the...

Patricia
Feb 26, 20222 min read
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An Unexpected Gate
This week I had my annual Medicare Wellness Visit. A series of blood tests, an EKG, an eye chart exam, and blood pressure test among the...

Patricia
Feb 12, 20222 min read
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Push Mower Thoughtfulness
Because of the ongoing coronavirus surge I have been hunkering down, not going anywhere. Fortunately, I can order groceries online and...

Patricia
Jan 29, 20222 min read
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Just Say No
Sitting in my front room with the gentle sound of heated air coming through the floor vent near my favorite chair I survey slated...

Patricia
Jan 15, 20222 min read
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When Is Later?
A very classy lady who I see in my early morning exercise class wears very pretty workout clothes –and beautiful jewelry. She’s in in her...

Patricia
Dec 31, 20212 min read
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Christmas Eve Traditions
Christmas Eve is a special time for our family. Gathering at my son’s home (the largest space) we start mid-afternoon in the kitchen...

Patricia
Dec 24, 20212 min read
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Box Fort Memorial
Since I live alone, I have the lovely privilege of having everything my way in my home. Consequently, besides the usual furnishings I...

Patricia
Dec 17, 20212 min read
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It's Not Jello
It’s still dark outside; I’m in bed listening to the early morning. I hear fans in a nearby vineyard; it sounds like a small airplane...

Patricia
Dec 10, 20212 min read
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Miracles
Christmastime is a holiday season that celebrates miracles. It especially feels that way to me with the excitement of brightly decorated...

Patricia
Dec 3, 20212 min read
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This Moment
After talking to my financial advisor and setting up yearly distributions from my IRA starting in January, there was no escaping it. I...

Patricia
Nov 26, 20212 min read
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Journaling Out Loud
In the past when anyone suggested that I write my thoughts in a journal I resisted. It felt restrictive, trying to put words down fast...

Patricia
Nov 19, 20212 min read
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Unstructured Hours
In the four months since I retired much has changed. As I recorded previously, my long commute to work and back has ended, demands on my...

Patricia
Nov 12, 20212 min read
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Childhood Playmates
I used to try in vain to remember my childhood friends, the ones who lived in the same Seattle neighborhood I grew up in. My early years...

Patricia
Nov 5, 20212 min read
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Rain Storm
Less than a week ago a powerful storm called an atmospheric river drenched some parts of the Bay Area with a foot of rain over a 48-hour...

Patricia
Oct 29, 20212 min read
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